Have you ever wondered how to influence the people around you?
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Most people think we influence others with our rhetoric.
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The real answer, however, might surprise you.
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Transcript:
Do you ever feel like you’re being watched?
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Brace yourself – you are!
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Our kids are watching – our friends are watching – our neighbors are watching – the people at the office are watching – people at the grocery store are watching
even when we’re just casually walking down the street, somebody is noticing us
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hmmm
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now, we can just say, who cares and not bother to worry about it and just live our lives.
that’s fine
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or we can say, this is an incredible opportunity I can influence others simply because they’re watching me.
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hmmm
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that’s pretty cool.
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All we have to do to influence others is simply be the influence that we want them to see.
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Now here’s the challenge:
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Only a true psychopath can be a certain kind of person on the inside and portray a different person on the outside. That dichotomy isn’t possible for most people. For most of us, if there isn’t congruence between the character on the insideand the character we want to portray – eventually what happens is the outside influence crashes and people see our true selves.
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So what do we do?
Well we’ve talked about this before but it is worth repeating…the only way to truly influence who we are is to influence what we think. Now think about this for a moment the greatest most passionate lover – that person develops that passion long before his or her body touches his or her partners.
Right here… our mind is the most powerful sex organ that we have.
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Now when it comes to the development of our character = the most powerful organ that we have is our mind.
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If you want to act a certain way – or influence a certain way
just control the thoughts that create that character and influence.
It all starts right here.
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See and when we create the influence inside in our true character then people naturally see it
Otherwise they won’t believe it cause our bodies give us away and eventually our words and our tempers give us away too.
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We have to make sure we let go of the things that poison us
Things like lack of gratefulness or unforgiveness or bitterness or jealousy or judging
The things that shrivel us up inside
We have to get rid of those things because those things influence the way we appear to others too – even if we don’t think they do.
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The thing is – every single one of us is being watched
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The question is – what are others seeing and are they seeing what we want them to see
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If not the change we must make is inside
When we make that change everything else will appear different.
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You’re being watched.
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What are you gonna do about it?
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