What if We Made a Pact?

Did you fall off too?
You know what I mean.

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Did you fall off that resolution bandwagon?

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Man – that hurt. I fell on my shoulder… nearly knocked it out!
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It seems everyone is falling off the wagon.
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Actually – nearly everyone is.
You know why?  

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Resolutions Don’t Work!
They don’t work!!!!
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So ….

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I’d like to make a pact with you.
Watch this week’s video and let me know if you’re in.
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I guarantee you – it’ll change your life.

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Transcript:

Did you fall off yet?
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You know what I’m talking about. That news years resolution bandwagon thing.
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Did you fall off?
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Well here’s the thing. I used to always fall off if not on January 1st, I would fall off by the 2nd or 3rd. Sometimes I would make it into February. It never worked for me.
It never worked for me because it actually doesn’t work.

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Resolutions don’t work! It’s not how humans are made.

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You know what works is when we make a resolution in our mind and in our heart of what we want and then the goals and the strategies flow from there.
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We all like a new start. We all love a new year. We love making a declaration – but almost all of us fall off that wagon very quickly after the start of it.
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I have an idea.
What if we made a pact?
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What if we made a pact to not beat ourselves up for falling off the bandwagon of resolutions?
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I mean we all kind of do that don’t we?

We make this resolution we fall off it – we beat ourselves up ….. it’s a terrible cycle.
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Think about this for a moment…..
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Would you want other people to describe you as an abuser or as someone who controls the people around them and yells and screams at them?

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Well if you don’t want to be described as an abuser or controller, then it means you can’t be an abuser or controller of yourself either.
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Because how we treat ourselves is the standard in our lives of how we treat others.
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So why don’t we make a pact?

Let’s make a pact that we will not beat on ourselves 
for falling off the bandwagon 
or making a mistake
or for being less than perfect
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when we do accidentally beat up on ourselves…..
Let’s make a pact to not beat up on ourselves for beating up on ourselves  – cause that just contributes to the cycle
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What happens when we stop beating up on ourselves:
We increase our self-worth
We increase our self-value
We increase our confidence
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and all those things come together and then we increase our efficiency
and we increase our ability to actually reach the goals we really want to reach.
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So whatever with the resolution thing
maybe it’s a fun game but when you fall off that resolution bandwagon…
no more beating yourself up because you’re human and resolutions don’t work
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Alright so that’s the pact I’m making>
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Are you in?
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If you’re in let me know in the comments wherever you see this video.
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Let’s grow our lives and our confidence and let’s move towards our goals.
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Let’s create the lives we truly want and let’s start by refusing to beat ourselves up

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You can create the life you truly desire.
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You can.
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But you have to want it 

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